Attitudes that magnet guys but makes them hate you too...
Guys are attracted to girls for so many reasons. There's a catch! Guys love girls with an attitude that they actually hate. It's a complicated thing to understand. But here it goes...
Guys love a girl who talks strongly and does reason out.
On a date, guy finds it cool for a girl who can fight for her rights against issues. Strong will makes a girl so appealing to guys. But on a relationship, the guy would prefer the strong-willed girl to tame down and just go with the flow with him.
Guys love a girl who have always time for him.
A girl who would go and date with him after office hours is an ideal girl for a guy. A guy would love a girl who has always time for him. Party, mall, vacation... If the girl can accompany his guy, the guy would love the girl more. But the girl can only do all does things with his guy. Thinking of partying with her girl friends would be a no-no for most guys. And after marriage, the wife is expected to mutate into a "office-home-grocery" type of girl.
Sexy photos attracts men.
Are you sexy? Got any sexy photos uploaded on social networking sites like Facebook? Guys would love a sexy girl, having a sexy pose, with a sexy outfit. Try to be in a relationship with that guy and you won't be allowed to post such photos anymore.
Got a job that pays high? You're on the check list!
Guys love to have a girl with a big pay check. It's like looking up on a girl and praising her for her success. It doesn't actually mean that the guy is after a girl's money. And a girl with big pay checks are usually open to go to vacations, malls and have fun with not much financial restrictions. And it's fun to be with a girl who's always on the go. But on marriage life, the guy might felt inferior because his wife is earning more than he does.
Guys love smart girls.
Guys love smart girls. A smart girl makes a sexy girl. Acting smart makes him want you to be his girlfriend or wife. But being smart and acting smart as a wife, he might feel inferior and might think that you are just "acting up" again to show him who's the boss. He would hope you would just be a normal girl.
Guys like girls who lives separately from her parents.
It's a guy thing to like a girl who is independent and choose to live separately from her parents. The guy doesn't actually care why the girl lives alone on a rented condo or private room. It's like a dream to have a girl who has her own flat, whether it's rented or not. But after marriage and the guy plans to still live with his parents, but the girl doesn't want to, then it's a big mess!
A girl who's ready and wants to go out with him with his pals is way to cool!
There are girls who can party or who just gets along with their boyfriends even if his pals are around. Would her boyfriend go swimming, boxing, bowling or watching movies? Is it okay for her to be on his side and be tagged along as they have fun? Would the girl have fun too? If the answer is yes, then she's a perfect and cool girlfriend. But there are times when it's too much. And after marriage, a guy won't prefer his wife to go with him. He would feel like guarded. He would like to have fun with his pals without his wife, because it would only be his time away from work and responsibilities. He would like to feel relax with his pals.
Not all applies to all guys. But one of these, I'm sure it does apply to a guy. These are my opinions but some of these had already happened to some people I know.
It's fun to be on the dating and boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. But when a guy and a girl settles down, things would change a lot. It's still fun depending on how a married couple defines "fun" in a tied relationship. But it would not be the "fun" like before. It would be a different "fun" like having kids, sneaking out for a couples date on Valentine's Day or bringing the kids to a kiddie party.
Guys love a girl who talks strongly and does reason out.
On a date, guy finds it cool for a girl who can fight for her rights against issues. Strong will makes a girl so appealing to guys. But on a relationship, the guy would prefer the strong-willed girl to tame down and just go with the flow with him.
Guys love a girl who have always time for him.
A girl who would go and date with him after office hours is an ideal girl for a guy. A guy would love a girl who has always time for him. Party, mall, vacation... If the girl can accompany his guy, the guy would love the girl more. But the girl can only do all does things with his guy. Thinking of partying with her girl friends would be a no-no for most guys. And after marriage, the wife is expected to mutate into a "office-home-grocery" type of girl.
Sexy photos attracts men.
Are you sexy? Got any sexy photos uploaded on social networking sites like Facebook? Guys would love a sexy girl, having a sexy pose, with a sexy outfit. Try to be in a relationship with that guy and you won't be allowed to post such photos anymore.
Got a job that pays high? You're on the check list!
Guys love to have a girl with a big pay check. It's like looking up on a girl and praising her for her success. It doesn't actually mean that the guy is after a girl's money. And a girl with big pay checks are usually open to go to vacations, malls and have fun with not much financial restrictions. And it's fun to be with a girl who's always on the go. But on marriage life, the guy might felt inferior because his wife is earning more than he does.
Guys love smart girls.
Guys love smart girls. A smart girl makes a sexy girl. Acting smart makes him want you to be his girlfriend or wife. But being smart and acting smart as a wife, he might feel inferior and might think that you are just "acting up" again to show him who's the boss. He would hope you would just be a normal girl.
Guys like girls who lives separately from her parents.
It's a guy thing to like a girl who is independent and choose to live separately from her parents. The guy doesn't actually care why the girl lives alone on a rented condo or private room. It's like a dream to have a girl who has her own flat, whether it's rented or not. But after marriage and the guy plans to still live with his parents, but the girl doesn't want to, then it's a big mess!
A girl who's ready and wants to go out with him with his pals is way to cool!
There are girls who can party or who just gets along with their boyfriends even if his pals are around. Would her boyfriend go swimming, boxing, bowling or watching movies? Is it okay for her to be on his side and be tagged along as they have fun? Would the girl have fun too? If the answer is yes, then she's a perfect and cool girlfriend. But there are times when it's too much. And after marriage, a guy won't prefer his wife to go with him. He would feel like guarded. He would like to have fun with his pals without his wife, because it would only be his time away from work and responsibilities. He would like to feel relax with his pals.
Not all applies to all guys. But one of these, I'm sure it does apply to a guy. These are my opinions but some of these had already happened to some people I know.
It's fun to be on the dating and boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. But when a guy and a girl settles down, things would change a lot. It's still fun depending on how a married couple defines "fun" in a tied relationship. But it would not be the "fun" like before. It would be a different "fun" like having kids, sneaking out for a couples date on Valentine's Day or bringing the kids to a kiddie party.
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