Who's your daddy?
When my baby Ivan came out, people have been guessing if Ivan does look more like his father or me. He turns out to look like me. Then after a few months, people told us that our son is looking a lot like his father, even the smile.
My husband is so happy when he hears people saying Ivan does look like him more compare to me. By the way, our baby got my eyes.
But with my husband's niece, the baby boy doesn't look like a Chinese at all. Both parents are pure 100% Chinese, no less like baby Ivan. The baby got a white skin. But the baby hasn't got any feature from his father, as in "any".
On "our" mine... Who's your daddy? Maybe a paternity test would be the only way convince me and some others that the baby is really his.
Of course, I don't want to argue with them. All are just running on my mind.
My husband is so happy when he hears people saying Ivan does look like him more compare to me. By the way, our baby got my eyes.
But with my husband's niece, the baby boy doesn't look like a Chinese at all. Both parents are pure 100% Chinese, no less like baby Ivan. The baby got a white skin. But the baby hasn't got any feature from his father, as in "any".
On "our" mine... Who's your daddy? Maybe a paternity test would be the only way convince me and some others that the baby is really his.
Of course, I don't want to argue with them. All are just running on my mind.
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Hmm, that's just life insn't it, Berry? Whilst women know the child is definitely theirs, men through history have always had to wonder and therefore have jealously restricted their women's ability to mate with others, lest they wind up raising someone else's offspring.
That's one reason why a woman (and her friends) often seek to reassure a man "how much the baby looks like him".
From your entry, I'm not sure if your concern is for the origins of your own child or that of your husband's niece's child (or both)? Perhaps it's the way you phrased it, but presumably you would know if there is a chance that your own child is not his!
And as for your husband's niece, maybe some skin gets darker as it is exposed to the sun? In my case, our children came out white, though my wife is Indian. Now though, having lived in sunny NZ for while, some of them look more brown than her (except for their bums!). And features mature with age, so it may be hard to judge paternity just on the looks of a young child ... after all, they may naturally take on most resemblence to one parent or the other, if that parent has strong features and the other doesn't?
Hahaha you made me laugh there. I'm sure that my son's father is my husband =p 100% I'm too busy with work and play computer games to play around with other guys hahaha
My husband's niece got a white skin. The baby's face feature does tell us that the baby not a Chinese. And both parents are 100% Chinese. The baby got a little feature from the mother, but none from the father.
Ah so that's the reason why guys wanted their baby to look like them. I never thought of that. What I know is that, my husband wants our baby to look like him because... "machoism". Did I spell it right?
"machoism" is a construction I've never heard of. Perhaps you mean "machismo"
Dictionary.com gives macho as:
ma·cho (mä'chō)
adj. Characterized or motivated by machismo: "He was a mindless activist, a war lover, who found macho relish in danger and felt driven to prove manhood by confrontation" (Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr.)
n. pl. ma·chos
Machismo.
A person characterized by or exhibiting machismo.
Anyway,does it really matter even if your niece is not really biolgically her"father's" daughter.
If he has accepted her and loves her, does it really matter. I have two daughters that I love who are not mine biologically. Do we have to get so hung up on having our own genes procreated? After all, 99.9% of the genes she has would be the same anyhow!
But your situation is somewhat different. You adopted kids, that's okay.
But she... she had done so many bad things to us, to me, and especially to my husband. She wanted a wedding celebration, but her husband is poor. She got a nice Chinese engagement party, which only those people who are not poor can afford. But she got it, because that's her condition.
She had told so many lies to her mother, friends, relatives here and in China about my husband and our mother-in-law. Things got messed up even my mother is telling me that my husband is crazy "literally".
The school where her daughter is studying, many Chinese knows her story because she's been telling it out loud. And so, many do hate my mother-in-law.
I guess I just hate her so much for being so good to me, when in front of me, and being hating my husband and my new family so much.
Hmm.
Well given that you hate this girl (perhaps with good reason) I'd be a little careful that you don't let that colour your judgement as to whether this girl has been shagged by a white guy or not, purely based on the colour of the skin and physical features. It might just be wishful thinking on your part that your "enemy" has been shown to be morally suspect in this instance, and very hurtful if you are wrong.
Maybe you might be correct, but it's a risky game to assume that is the case.
don't worry, it's all in my mind, and my husband's mind
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