Another Reason to Resign...
There is another reason why I should resign. This is not an update from earlier post on "My job, My blogging job or My Baby?". This is a different story.
My parents-in-law are ought to be caretakers of a Baclaran store (tagabantay ng tindahan sa Baclaran). The store is owned by my brother-in-law. They are still on the "planning" stage I think. Or maybe they are just waiting for the import goods from China to come, before they would actually be on the store.
My problem is, who would take care of my son Ivan? There would be no one at the house except Ivan if that happens. I am not willing to hire a "yaya" and leave Ivan alone with the "yaya" at the house. And besides, if the "yaya" would be taking care of Ivan, who would be the one cleaning the house, washing Ivan's clothes...
And so, if they really would want to continue their plan, I would not hesitate to resign from my work. I would hire a maid, not a yaya. And not only that. I might stop blogging too. I'm not yet sure, but that's the only plan I can think of.
But according to mother-in-law on my earlier post on "My job, My blogging job or My Baby?", I should not quit on my job because we need money. I know that. And we need to save money for Ivan's future too.
Now, what do they want me to do...
My parents-in-law are ought to be caretakers of a Baclaran store (tagabantay ng tindahan sa Baclaran). The store is owned by my brother-in-law. They are still on the "planning" stage I think. Or maybe they are just waiting for the import goods from China to come, before they would actually be on the store.
My problem is, who would take care of my son Ivan? There would be no one at the house except Ivan if that happens. I am not willing to hire a "yaya" and leave Ivan alone with the "yaya" at the house. And besides, if the "yaya" would be taking care of Ivan, who would be the one cleaning the house, washing Ivan's clothes...
And so, if they really would want to continue their plan, I would not hesitate to resign from my work. I would hire a maid, not a yaya. And not only that. I might stop blogging too. I'm not yet sure, but that's the only plan I can think of.
But according to mother-in-law on my earlier post on "My job, My blogging job or My Baby?", I should not quit on my job because we need money. I know that. And we need to save money for Ivan's future too.
Now, what do they want me to do...
4 reactions for this post.:
baby should come first. i think yung husband should really be the one responsible for the finance. although you can help with blogging, pwede pa rin naman magblog pagtulog si baby ivan eh.
hayyy.,.. sis I had that dilema too before... different situation nga lang, buti nalang hindi natuloy.
Hmm if ever sis take care of Ivan nlang if you tlgang matutuloy nayan... though you can still blog and earn from it pagtulog na si baby :)
If you need to quit your job then do it but just don't stop blogging.
i think mas malaki na ang kinikita ng husband ko compare sa akin per month. bihira na lang yung mas malaki ang nakukuha ko.
pero kulang pa ren talaga. last night, ask ko hubby ko kung kailangan ko magresign kung sakali. sagot nya sa akin... "wag ka magresign"
so kailangan namin mag-isip ng ibang way. kahit hindi pa sure, kailangan handa kami.
yung blogging... hindi ko alam kung makablog pa ako kung bantay ako baby the whole day
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