I Need A Little Respect Here!!!
Yesterday, my husband and I had a fight. I was crying the night before and was half decided to go back to my parents side and leave my husband for good.
The reason: It's been a cycle of this not so good attitude of his... bad words coming out of his mouth calling me names like "piggy" and "m*ther f*cker". He's just joking but it does hurt. Then after some time, I'll get mad and cry and tell him about it. Then he'll promise not to joke on me with the second one. He does slips his tongue even in front of his parents!!!
I'll accept his apology. But he still calls me "piggy". But after some weeks, here he goes again. This last time, he calls me "d*ck head" and even in front of his father.
I hadn't slept that night and told him I can't take it anymore. We're on our 1 1/2 year relationship as husband and wife. And I am pregnant. We don't even have a child yet! I just thought that things might get worst after some years or maybe as early as I gave birth.
Then again, he promised not to repeat it. It's I think his 4th promise on that matter. By the way, all of those callings are in Chinese.
The next time he calls me a "d*ck head" or other bad words infront of his parents, I've told him that I'll him "It's you, not me!" I don't care if I'll shock his parents. I just need some respect!!!
The reason: It's been a cycle of this not so good attitude of his... bad words coming out of his mouth calling me names like "piggy" and "m*ther f*cker". He's just joking but it does hurt. Then after some time, I'll get mad and cry and tell him about it. Then he'll promise not to joke on me with the second one. He does slips his tongue even in front of his parents!!!
I'll accept his apology. But he still calls me "piggy". But after some weeks, here he goes again. This last time, he calls me "d*ck head" and even in front of his father.
I hadn't slept that night and told him I can't take it anymore. We're on our 1 1/2 year relationship as husband and wife. And I am pregnant. We don't even have a child yet! I just thought that things might get worst after some years or maybe as early as I gave birth.
Then again, he promised not to repeat it. It's I think his 4th promise on that matter. By the way, all of those callings are in Chinese.
The next time he calls me a "d*ck head" or other bad words infront of his parents, I've told him that I'll him "It's you, not me!" I don't care if I'll shock his parents. I just need some respect!!!
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i hope you get the respect you deserve. take care,sis!
mukhang patatawarin ko nanaman sya. naaapektuhan ang health ko kakaisip eh. so i guess papansinin ko na sya mamaya, para ok na ren ako. buntis kc ako so dapat healthy ako :)
wow. considering na you mentioned you were perfectly in love with your previous post tapos ganyan pala trato sayo. i sure hope na magbago na sya. i really can't stand jerks like that who badmouth their wives. masama pa doon in front of parents pa. wag sana kayo maghiwalay pero i pray na magbago na rin sana sya. take care. sorry i just had to comment.
actually mabait sya. the problem is, may mga times na hindi nya alam na mali na yung ginagawa nya. then masyado syang mabiro, like pagkulit kulit sa mga bata.
like yung pagtawag nya sa akin, biro lang nya yun. ang hirap iexplain pero hindi nya talaga alam kung ano ang tamang "biro" at times.
sana hindi na nya ulitin kundi lagot sya sa akin.
that's it! you're pregnant and you deserve to be treated well. ang hirap kaya mag buntis tapos ganyan pa. that's true also na sensitive tayong mga babae pag buntis and that they (husbands) should consider. you really deserve some respect as woman. hope maintindihan nya mga pinagsasabi nya sayo.. hope he knows how and when to joke and when to stop. sorry, but i got irritated. lumabas na naman tuloy pagka feminista ko.
well ngayon baligtad na kami. nilalambing nya ako, pero parang iniiwasan ko na sya. everyday he's trying to hug me. tinatabi ko kamay nya. then he'll ask me "ayaw mo ba?"... answer ko "huli na eh"
hindi ko sinasadya, it's kind of automatic na naging ganun ako bigla. sana mapatawad ko na sya kc kawawa naman.
and yes, lumalabas nanaman yung pagiging feminista ko like you :) minsan pag tulog sya, gusto ko syang sampalin sabay kunwari tulog, kahit wala syang kasalanan sa akin. medyo over, pero parang gusto ko lang gumanti
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